Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Life Returning To Normal ((Snagged from Deletion))

We survived the ice,
made it home after hiding away,
the electricity is on,
internet at the ready,
my birthday was nice,
Santa made his rounds,
family has been visited,
gifts exchanged

------ and now, finally, a time to just stand still. Even if I can only stay in this moment long enough for a good deep breath, I will gladly take it.

We moved all of the brush from the back to get it ready for the chipper trucks. Here is our lovely tangle, and a view of my mangled tree, it looks to me like it is raising its arms as if to say "what now ?" Big B said it looks like a kid w/ a bad haircut - um, yeah I guess it kind of does.

P.S. here it is a few weeks before the ice hit....



















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Saturday, December 22, 2007

Birthday, Christmas & Electricity ((Snagged from Deletion))

HI !!! I am still among the living. The boys and I are doing well. We braved 2 whole days w/out electricity, but were out a total of 10 days. I am so thankful for family that love us and welcomed us into their comfort. It is what made this Christmas for me. That and rapidly texting friends to get my fix during the early evening darkness.

My birthday is Monday, and I want nothing more than a small chant by all who read this "c'mon cox man" (cable company). Little B and I chanted "c'mon big trucks" all Wednesday morning, they got there at 10am to start whacking away at the trees covering my yard and then tackling the power lines that were shredded. It had just gone dark, we lit the candles and then the power came on. Ok, really, I had family at the house, and had run to my Mema's to order my new cell phone when I got the call about the power. It didn't diminish the thrill for me, but seemed more dramatic for the reader to say it the other way.....

Christmas.... I love it... And I am so not ready !!! I am not having any issues letting those things go - I am so happy to be home w/ the boys, and we are all healthy.

Happy Birthday Jesus !!!!!

............................................... and c'mon Cox man.


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J.D. said...
I am so glad you are back and everybody is doing good. Have a happy birthday and a very Merry Christmas!!!!
Sunday, December 23, 2007 11:28:00 AM

Monique said...
Thank You, I hope everything is well and you and yours had a wonderful holiday....
Wednesday, December 26, 2007 8:01:00 PM


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Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Vented Frustration ((Snagged from Deletion))

What an experience. Last night by candlelight was---- something. I can't say it was fun.

As we turned the corner to our house, we could see the caution tape hanging from our mailbox, and the neon green sheet of paper which combined w/ the tape, could not be anything good. It certainly would not be saying "you're fixed and ready, glad we could help !" As expected, it did not. It said that they would have to come back to us, no explanation as to why, just that they would be back. Great ! Now what.....




The tree guys were told to STOP by PSO, for fear that they would cut the main line and then I would be responsible for it. The electrician has already done his part to reattach the weather-vane to the house, and now we just wait - and wait-- and wait, then it gets dark, and we wait some more.

It now looks like I have to "get on" my neighbor about removing his tree limbs before they will do anything on my power. What a joy. He does not even live there anymore, it is his Mother's house, she passed away a few years ago, he inherited it and just maintains it w/ all of her stuff inside - can we say creepy ? So now I get to deal w/ him. What fun. Norman Bates and I going at it over a tree.

He usually comes by after work on his way home, so hopefully I can talk to him tonight, but that leaves another full day w/ zero progress.

I took the boys out to eat, of course, and as we were walking out, the waitress ran after us w/ 2 punching balloons. So throughout my house last night, I heard Little b and Big b going at it w/ each other, Big b freaking on Little b to get away from the candle w/ the balloon and rapid-fire bump bump bump inbetween. Oh, and we were playing Spiderman operation too. So add that sound into the mix.

They went to sleep by candlelight, which was really sweet. Surprisingly I didn't take a single pic of them, but I will tonight.

We aren't alone in our darkness though, my entire block is still out, on our side of the street anyway. One would think seeing Christmas lights through your living room window would be cheery dispite the fact that you yourself can not see more than a few feet in front of you when walking w/ a flashlight or candle. It isn't.

I did have an idea for our Christmas picture though. We always take a pic close to Christmas in front of our tree. This year, I've gathered flashlights of all kinds and sizes to place in my tree for this picture. It sounds great, just hope I can pull it off. There really is no better way to remember this Christmas. I have an album of each year's pic, this will stand out among the others.


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J.D. said...
Oh, this brings back memories of our ice storm a few years ago here. I know you all must be beginning to lose your minds.
Ahh, and neighbors... lovely aren't they?

I know how hard it can be at the time, but in hindsight, it is some of the most unique memories the kids will ever have. And may be seen as a blessing later.
I really hope the power is back on for you all real soon.
Tuesday, December 18, 2007 4:55:00 PM


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Tulsa's holding out for a hero - Jay Cronley ((Snagged from Deletion))


With people running for their lives, and with residential looting taking place in black-hole neighborhoods, and with power lines dangling over streets and resting on garages, and with traffic backed up as far as the eye could see on many through streets, and with losers raising prices on everything from batteries to generators, and with ice havin fallen with malice and with snow following, and with the city's greatest diaster dragging on and on and on (and on), here is what some of us have gotten in terms of inspirational leadership: not much.

--snippit taken from Tulsa World December 16, 2007


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Monday, December 17, 2007

Finally Going Home ((Snagged from Deletion))

Lots of activity around my house.

I'll be here when I can....

Take Care


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Thursday, December 13, 2007

Movin' On ((Snagged from Deletion))


I wish that I could say all of this moving around has been an adventure or that I feel like a gypsy, but really I just want to go home. To a home that is lit, warm and clean.

Everything is in shambles, rummaging through in the dark by flashlight or dimly lit through the day, and nothing is where it should be. The last time I was there, I cleaned the refrigerator, carrying out 4 heavy trash bags of wasted food really pissed me off.

In the car heading out of town, it was the boys, me, 2 dogs, a cat and luggage that included a dozen movies, a game system and a laundry basket of dirty clothes. What a wonderful way to greet your host, huh ? We have been welcomed in, given the best and most comfortable of everything they have ---- I will always be grateful.

Lucky for me the computer here needed much attention, so I love that I have little somethings to do, and it is of great help to them, which is nice but can not measure in what they have offered to my family. I just added a dvd burner and a gig of ram. Now to watch carefully, hoping nothing explodes... Actually I've avoided trying the burner until now, and even then decided to write here first, again putting it off.

I bet you all wish you were me right now. In a house not mine, listening to two 8 year olds scream and yell and laugh stupid pre-pubescent boy nonsense about the Spiderman Friend or Foe game. I think they have forgotten I'm here, because at this moment my 8 year of the 2 is proclaiming that he just webbed [a bad guy] in the nuts. That's new, Hmmm, I'll let it go until he says it directly to me, then there will be hell to pay.

Since I gave a paragraph to Big B, I should mention something about Little B, who is carrying a 8lb dumbbell around. That should be bad news in a minute when it falls on his foot. He has really enjoyed all the people around here. Last night he could not sleep though, and I feared the house spent the night listening to him cry. When I got him settled and asleep after one episode, Big B woke w/ a bad dream. Luckily we were able to sleep until 9.

My dogs are outside shivering, I need to clean their paws and bring them in, always a good time. Lucky is the well mannered dog, and she has taken to bullying the teeny tiny dog. Ginger is the crazed lunatic dog and she is the favorite here, the world is lost in chaos. My poor cat has taken up shelter under the couch in the den/playroom/computer room and won't come out. I know she is there, but have not seen her out since last night. As if you really care for the update on my animals, but there it is anyway.

Sigh, I wish it had taken longer to put her stuff in the computer, I was excited for a major project and it was too short lived. Maybe I should be careful, I still have not checked it all out. It may become a major headache if I push my luck. I know the ram is ok and working, flying actually. But I need to do some maintenance before I try the burner out (another stall). She has 2 years worth of digi pics on here, that would make me nutty. One crash and there goes everything.

Ok, enough useless information. I thought I should at least make an appearance here this week, sorry it isn't more interesting, but this is the most I've said since the ice took over my world.....

Thank You to everyone who has commented and emailed, I appreciate knowing the thoughts are out there for us. Truly...

Hopefully it will only be another day or two (I'm an optimist) before I can announce that we are home and the clean-up has begun. I miss Tulsa and feel bad for leaving her during this, but it was too much for my boys to have to go through. I may go back tomorrow for the day, Muskogee is only an hour drive away.
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What A Long Day !! ((Snagged from Deletion))

My head is pounding w/ a headache of spending the day in and out of the cold.

Just when it began to go away tonight, my body finally have a real chance to regulate temperature, I remembered that there were things from my frerrrraerrrrr (as Little B would say... refrigerator) still in the trunk of my car.

Out I go again, but not a leisurely walk to the car, that would not suit this day. Instead, I got to stoop under the fallen limb hanging over her patio and crawl over a 4ft wall, covered in ice.Today I feel exhausted, a true exhaustion that makes me feel petty for ever casually using the word to describe sleepiness.

Our neighbor is 82 years old, widowed and the sweetest, kindest woman you would ever want to know. This morning I went to check on her, she was so cold it made me cry. I gave her my cell to call her daughter, she didn't know I could hear their conversation and I pretended not to, but was shocked at how the daughter spoke to her Mother.

She basically answered her Mother asking to come stay w/ her out of this cold house w/ "what are you wanting me to do" and "there is no telling how long we will have power". And the best of the worst was the Mother telling her child that I had been over several times to check on her, bringing her coffee and something warm to eat, to which the daughter said "then have Monique bring you over if you want to get out".

How on earth can someone speak to their Mother that way ?

To say I was appalled is such a gross understatement it seems ridiculous to say it, but at this time of the night, after this kind of day, I can think of nothing better. Just know that I would find a hideous word for it if I could. Well, I guess I kind of just did.

*12/13 I just found this post waiting, we lost power at my Mother's after the last sentence and did not have it again before she left for her sister's and I headed back to the house to pack up for Muskogee.

The neighbor I spoke of, I've known for 10 years, she carefully watched over me pregnant w/ both of the boys and is a huge part of my family. The boys both adore her. She is so over-whelmed by our concern for her that she is in tears w/ every visit.

I must give kudos to J for stepping up, he is taking her food and coffee so that the boys and I can be here. He is actually doing a lot to be helpful, and I so appreciate it from him. He is even staying at the house, dark and cold to make sure nothing happens while we're gone and sleeping on the couch to listen for any suspicious crackles.**

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Monday, December 10, 2007

Frozen 'n' Broken in Oklahoma : Broken Trees 2 MINE ((Snagged from Deletion))





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giL said...
Wow. we don't have that kind of winter here in the holy land, thats for sure :) anyway, you can look at the bright side of it: it won't fall on you when you are asleep now... :)
Tuesday, December 11, 2007 1:51:00 AM

Monique said...
Hi Gil... Yes this is true, if it is down, it can't fall twice.Thanks for talking back.
Thursday, December 13, 2007 11:30:00 AM

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matt said...
It's almost a winter wonderland minus the bad.
Monday, December 10, 2007 2:24:00 PM

Rosie said...
wow! did the trees damage anything of yours? i love the pictures with the ice, and the newest one of the icicles.
Monday, December 10, 2007 2:57:00 PM

ThreeBitesFoodBlog said...
Your pictures are beautiful despite the devastation. I hope things clear up soon.
Tuesday, December 11, 2007 1:36:00 PM

Monique said...
Matt - You just miss winter something awful down there, anything seems like a winter wonderland. Just wait until Spring when you have your monsoon season, I'll tell you how tropical it all looks....
Thursday, December 13, 2007 11:34:00 AM

Monique said...
Rosie - Yep, all the trees on my property are a complete loss, I am soooo sad. I love trees in general, but one is my favorite and she started splintering Tuesday.Thanks, I'm glad you like the pics. It is amazing what has happened.
Thursday, December 13, 2007 11:38:00 AM

Monique said...
Three Bites - Thanks, it is strange to look at these and see the great beauty, but then recognize the sadness in the loss. Strange combination of emotions isn't it ?
Thursday, December 13, 2007 11:39:00 AM
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Frozen 'n' Broken In Oklahoma ((Snagged from Deletion))

This was taken the day before, as the icy weather moved in....

Major ice storm

Trees falling
Electricity out (200,000 Tulsans w/out)
Camping out at my Mom's
Electricity due back, optimistically - middle of next week, realistically - many weeks
Many pics to share, of course, but for now..............
.........................we're hanging out !!!
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